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What Should I Do? (VERY long description, sorry)

I like this guy, and a few years ago we used to be really close friends (really close)I was falling for him hard. i think he used to like me (he showed all the signs)...but then school ended and he started dating this girl during summer... and that really wrecked our friendship. I still wanted to believe we were friends but it was clear it was fading away. They were dating on and off for a while.. and he became controlling. She was stupid for wanting to get back with him after he hurt her for so long.
I thought they were going to stop for good but they're back together and i told the girl i still had feelings for him. She told me that he supected i liked him....Maybe its clear that i should just tell him how i feel and not be shy... but i need others opinions. It would be greatly appreciated :)


 FireByrd15 posted over a year ago
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Karthigesh said:
I suggest you talk to him. But talk about BOTH your feelings and also how you feel with regards to the friendship. Tell him how it hurts you that you can't enjoy the things that you used to, with him when you were good friends, and that even if he didn't like you back, you hope that he would see how much you want the friendship to work and not to lose him entirely. This part is crucial. From your description, I think deep down, you just don't want to lose this person from your life, neither do you want to see him hurt, so tell him how you feel and what is the real deep emotion that is eating at you inside. You will feel better knowing you told the person how you felt and I hope that he works hard to maintain that bond you 2 have had :)

You seem like a very caring and loving person, so I wish you the best :)
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posted over a year ago 
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wow. thank you. haha this helps. I've just got to find a good time to tell him all this... i hope he doesnt think im being dramatic :)
FireByrd15 posted over a year ago
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If he loves you, even as a friend, he will take all the time in the world to hear you out and won't think of you any differently than the amazing person you really are :)
Karthigesh posted over a year ago
swiddlewiddle said:
Gurl, do not tell him you like him! No, it's a huge mistake! Think about it! He has a girlfriend, if he does like you, he'll have to choose between you and her, and this will hurt him :(. And if he doesn't like you, well...
Anyway, you should talk with him about your friendship with him. Tell him about what you guys used to be, and that you want it back.
But who am I to say all this? Maybe you're different by me, cuz i'd rather die than tell my crush that i like him. :D
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posted over a year ago 
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well said!!!!
suzyisbrute posted over a year ago
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thanks :)
swiddlewiddle posted over a year ago
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